BACK TO SCHOOL
Monday, August 27th,
is the first day back to school for most kids in the Charlotte-Mecklenburg
School System. That means kids of all
ages and their parents will pour onto the streets, excited and maybe stressed
on their way to class in the midst of rush hour traffic. Please:
- · Watch for children, tiny and teen
- · STAY OFF MOBILE PHONES
- · DO NOT TEXT WHILE DRIVING
- · Talk with kids about all kinds of safety (see tips to follow)
- · SLOW DOWN in school zones. It’s the law and the right thing to do.
TALK WITH KIDS ABOUT SAFETY
The National Center for the Missing and Exploited Children has put together this list of
important safety tips:
An analysis by the
National Center for Missing & Exploited Children of attempted abductions
during the past five years found that children are at most risk when going to
and from school or school related activities1.
Parents and other adults
can help keep children safe by following these ten tips2:
1. Teach your children to
always TAKE A FRIEND with them when walking or biking, and
stay with a group while standing at the bus stop. Make sure they know which bus
to ride.
2. Walk the route to and
from school with your children pointing out landmarks and safe places to go if
they're being followed or need help. Teach your children they should NEVER
TAKE SHORTCUTS and always stay in well-lit areas.
3. It is not safe for young
children to walk to and from school, even in a group. Parents should always
provide supervision for young children to help ensure their safe arrival to and
from school. If your children wait for a bus, wait with them or make
arrangements for supervision at the bus stop.
4. Teach your children that
if anyone bothers them, makes them feel scared or uncomfortable to trust their
feelings and immediately get away from that person. Teach them it is ok not to
be polite and IT IS OK TO SAY NO.
5. Teach your children if
anyone tries to take them somewhere they should RESIST by kicking
and screaming, try to run away and DRAW ATTENTION by kicking
and screaming "This person is trying to take me away" or "This
person is not my father/mother."
6. Teach your children NOT
TO ACCEPT A RIDE from anyone unless you have said it is ok in that
instance. If anyone follows them in a vehicle they should turn around, go in
the other direction, and run to a trusted adult who may help them.
7. Teach your children that
grownups should NOT ASK CHILDREN FOR DIRECTIONS, they should ask
other adults.
8. Teach your children to NEVER
ACCEPT MONEY OR GIFTS from anyone unless you have told them it is ok
to accept in each instance.
9. Make sure the school has
current and accurate emergency contact information on file for your children
and confirm names of those authorized.
10. Always know where your
children will be. Teach your children to always CHECK FIRST before
changing their plans before or after school. Teach your children to never leave
school, with anyone unless they CHECK FIRST with you or
another trusted adult, even if someone tells them it is an emergency.
Children should be taught
to trust their feelings. They need to know that if someone makes them feel
scared, uncomfortable, or confused, they should tell a parent, guardian, or
trusted adult.
Also check out their other tips at the link given:
Know the Rules...After-School Safety for Children Who Are Home Alone
Know the Rules...Going To and From School More Safely
Know the Rules...For Child Safety in Youth Sports
Know the Rules...After-School Safety for Children Who Are Home Alone
Know the Rules...Going To and From School More Safely
Know the Rules...For Child Safety in Youth Sports
DON’T FORGET
CYBER RULES, BULLYING, PRIVACY
Texting, sexting,
cyberbullies, Facebook bullies, Twitter messages, can all get out of control in
a hurry, even at very young ages. Have
an in-depth discussion—and many more after—with your pre-teens and teens about the
right way to use technology and let them do much of the talking about how they
use it, what they see and hear, and any concerns that come up. Have open-door policies and
check cell phone bills, scan texts once in a while, and keep computers in a
public area of the house. Passwords
should be accessible to parents. You don’t
have to look all the time. You don’t
have to be an invasive spy, but letting kids have the backup to say “my parents
would see that” is often the difference between safety and trouble, even if
they complain to you about it.
Don’t forget,
kids sometimes create multiple accounts.
Establish rules
for checking in, emergency numbers, backup contacts, and know the names of your
childrens’ friends and their parents, along with how to reach them. How many phone numbers could you rattle off
in this day of programming numbers into mobile devices?
Make sure young children know their last names, parents' full names, the street and address of
home, home phone numbers (work, too,
if possible), and place parents work. Be sure the school has
up-to-date contact information.
PREPARE AHEAD
Pack a lunch the
night before if possible and have a little lunch money.
Make sure
everyone lays out clothes, school supplies packed in backpacks, and anything
they’ll need for after school until pickup.
This will help the morning rush and nerves.
Have directions
or school bus stop information prepared ahead of time and leave early so nobody
is rushing. Make sure all children are
accounted for when you empty out the minivan at home or work—this is not a joke. It has happened when people are in a new routine.
CMS Helpful Link Page
For parents with
kids going back to school, check with this Charlotte-Mecklenburg Schools back-to-school page that contains a checklist
with everything you need to know before the kids go back:
Student
Assignment:
Registration
& Address Update
Health:
Vaccines and
physicals required
Bus Stops:
Locations &
times. SOME HAVE CHANGED.
If
you have questions about transportation, call 980-343-6715
School Bell
Schedule
Required
Supplies
Vary by
individual school
Uniforms
Supplies
Open
House
ASEP
After School Enrichment Programs
Now
go, and learn, and have fun!