UPDATE: Thanks to WCNC's Dianne Gallagher for pointing out that Tayviona Vandiver was located after two weeks. Her name didn't come up in a search before posting this story except for the Charlotte Observer/WCNC partner link posted August 5 which shows her as "still missing" as of August 14. It seems WCNC didn't tell the Observer, either. Apologies for the error but so happy to know she is safe. See the story at WCNC.com direct story here:
The Charlotte Observer is reporting about Rowan County only recently
reported missing by her brother, even though authorities now say she’s been
gone since 2011. The full story can be
found here, with excerpts shown below:
Police:
Missing girl’s parents are being uncooperative
Investigators searching for a missing
Rowan County teenager say nothing the girl’s adoptive parents told them during
two days’ worth of questioning was true, and the family is not being
cooperative.
Erica Parsons’ older brother reported
her missing last week. It appears the last time people at the family home on
Miller Chapel Road in Salisbury saw her was November 2011.
No
one knows where Erica Lynn Parsons is, or who she left with in 2011
What isn’t in the Observer story but has been reported in other
media is that both the maternal grandmothers have been dead since years prior
to the time frame the adoptive parents claim Erica went to live with her
grandmother, driven away with some unknown person.
WBTV reported tonight on the one week delay between the missing
persons report and posting Erica’s information on the Center for Missing and
Exploited Children’s site (http://www.missingkids.com). What they didn’t report and what is notable
is that another young girl from our area is also missing, but not on the site
either:
The
full story from the Charlotte Observer on Monday, Aug. 05, 2013 is
here:
A 12-year-old Charlotte girl is still
missing.
Tayviona Vandiver was last seen at
her house on Cold Water Lane on July 23.
She is 5-foot-5 and 110 pounds. She
is black and has black hair, and police say she may need medical attention.
Officers say Vandiver has run away
before, but never for this length of time. She is known to frequent the Redman
Road area near the Forest Ridge and East Walk apartment complexes.
Anyone with information should call
911.
EXTRA
TELEVISION COVERAGE FOR TAYVIONA?
Tayviona is not listed on the Missing Kids
site. She hasn’t been reported as
found. She is likely not the only child
from our area who isn’t safely at home.
Please watch for her as well.
Please talk to your children about their own
safety and about how to help their friends—that they should “tell on” their
friends to keep them safe. If there are
secrets too big for kids to handle, go get the right adult to help. And keep trying until everyone is somewhere
safe.
Meanwhile, look for these two girls to bring them
home, and make sure if you see them you tell them they are loved and people are only interested in having them home safe:
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Photo Credit: Charlotte Observer
TAYVIONA VANDIVER, Age 12, current picture, 5' 5"
Missing from CHARLOTTE
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Photo Credit: Charlotte Observer
ERICA LYNN PARSONS
Photo from 2011
Missing from ROWAN COUNTY |
SAFETY
INFORMATION
There are a number of sites with good resources
for having conversations with your kids.
One specific list comes from the www.missingkids.com site (see www.take25.org/FamilyResources ) and could make
a big difference. Remember, it’s not
just one conversation. Of course, nobody
wants to scare kids, but we do want to prepare kids:
Child safety is a serious subject, but that
doesn’t mean you can’t have an enjoyable time talking about it with children.
Sing songs, tell stories, play games, and interact with kids in a way that
makes them feel safer. Consider the following topics as you begin the
conversation.
- Teach
children their full names, address, and home telephone number
- Make
sure they know your full name
- Make
sure children know how to reach you at work or on your cell phone
- Teach
children how and when to use 911 and make sure children have a trusted
adult to call if they’re scared or have an emergency
- Instruct
children to keep the door locked and not to open the door to talk to
anyone when they are home alone
- Set
rules with children about having visitors over when you’re not home and
how to answer the telephone
See the same site to click on links for:
- · Conversation
Starters
- · Safety
Tips
- · Child
ID kit
- · Emergency
Contact for Parents
- · Bookmark
(Nat’l. Center’s rules of safety)
- · Series
of Mini Lessons
- · Activity
Lessons
- · Parent
Presentation
With the excitement of a new school season
starting and everyday pressures, it’s a good time to review and teach your
kids.